No, I dun want to use my real name Xiao Li. anyways, I am ok with either of your places, as long as we don't end up with a glut of food. and no we shouldn't play that game.. I still remember that Desiree got most the 'feeding' forfeit.. poor babe. *grin* maybe we should draw up a list of what we want to eat and the quantity? It may not be all that 'spontaneous giving' but we won't end up with enough food to feed like a whole nation. I want tiramisu. sheperd's pie is ok. maybe just one mini mini tray though. nah just kidding.... as long as it is enough for everyone who will be in attendance on that day.